This post is a part of a Marian Virtue Series, running every Wednesday and Friday. It will conclude on the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary. If you are just joining the series now and want to learn more you can start here: Introduction to Marian Virtue Series.
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Someone was sobbing in my father’s hospital room.
Dad’s nurse intercepted me halfway down the hallway. Beads of sweat clung desperately to her tired, furrowed brow.
“I’m not Catholic,” she uttered, pleading. “I swear I didn’t know.”
We walked together down the corridor until I got close enough to peer through the door. The contents of a small trash can lay spread across the bedside table. The hospital chaplain stood over my father, a used pair of gloves in his hand. “Jim,” Father said, his voice tinged with authority and compassion: “I won’t be able to bring you Viaticum again – not until your swallowing improves.”
A tortured sob escaped my father’s lips. “Oh, Jesus. Forgive me! Did you find Him, Father? Did you find Jesus?”
A slim hand grabbed my elbow. A voice whispered next to my ear. “I didn’t know what it was, I promise. It was just a speck and I, I removed it…”
She had thrown Jesus in the trash.
Blessed are you who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled [Luke 1:45]
In the final years of his life, my father’s faith grew by leaps and bounds. He had been a devout Catholic for as long as I could remember, but walking with Jesus on the way to the cross strengthened his understanding of the truths of our faith. His devotion to the Eucharist was phenomenal, his desire to receive Him unwavering.
But I was 27. My father was dying, and a nurse’s negligence had thrown him into despair. I was so angry it took me over a decade to recognize the grace in that gut-wrenching moment.
He had been given a share in Marian Virtue, specifically the Virtue of Lively Faith.
As Bethany covered in the introduction to this series, St. Louis de Montfort defined the ten virtues of Mary as specific characteristics we should study and emulate. Mary’s Lively Faith, her fiat, is the virtue that changed the course of human history. Her yes flung wide the gates of heaven, her faith brought forth the Incarnation for mankind. Our Mother Mary never doubted – not for one second, one moment in time. Her faith was keen, ardent, and steadfast.
It was overwhelmingly, undeniably alive.
By her lively faith, she believed the angel’s word without the least hesitation, and believed faithfully and constantly, even to the foot of the Cross on Calvary. (J. Morinay)
Though she was unique from the moment of the Immaculate Conception, Our Blessed Mother was not divine. She was a human woman who gave birth to a human son. But it is precisely the mother and child’s humanity which makes Mary’s faith all the more outstanding: what god would come to earth as a vulnerable, helpless child?
Mary knew the answer was simple. The Savior of the World was her tiny son.
Mary nursed Jesus and rocked Him. She changed His diapers and wiped his nose. She defused tantrums, soothed skinned knees, and directed daily chore time. Mary raised, loved, and adored a fully human child, never wavering in the knowledge he was divine:
[T]he most holy Virgin had more faith than all men and Angels. She saw her Son in the crib of Bethlehem, and believed Him the Creator of the world. She saw Him fly from Herod, and yet believed Him the King of kings. She saw Him born and believed Him eternal, She saw Him poor and in need of food, and believed Him the Lord of the universe. She saw Him lying on straw, and believed Him omnipotent. She observed that He did not speak, and she believed Him infinite wisdom. She heard Him weep, and believed Him the joy of Paradise. In fine, she saw, Him in death, despised and crucified, and, although faith wavered in others, Mary remained firm in the belief that He was God. (St. Alphonsus Liguori)
Our Blessed Mother’s devotion was unchanging. She saw Jesus at His most vulnerable and never lost sight of the divine. Her steadfast belief is a model for our own fidelity – the Eucharist isn’t a sign or a symbol. It is our God, body and blood, soul and divinity, fully present in the species of bread and wine.
The next time you approach the Eucharist, fix your heart on the image of Mary and her child. Contemplate the tenderness, the respect with which she carried Our Lord. Ask the Holy Spirit to descend upon you, to bestow you with the virtue of Mary’s Lively Faith.
My father had it.
We can have it.
May we open our hearts to her Lively Faith.
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Adrienne Thorne says
I love this post, and this series! I haven’t seen many breakdowns or illustrations of the ten Marian virtues before, and I think sometimes it’s hard for me to understand concretely what these beautiful aspects of her sanctity actually mean. Thanks for sharing this!
Ginny Kochis says
You’re welcome – thanks for stopping by!
Your connection of Mary’s faith as an example of our call to faith toward the Eucharist couldn’t be more on point. God reward you for this reflection!!!
Ginny Kochis says
Thank you, Mary!
Ginny, thank you so much for this Marian Virtue post on Lively Faith. I love that you shared about your Dad and how his faith grew stronger especially towards the Eucharist. I think approaching the Eucharist with the image of Mary & child is so beautiful. Through these Marian virtues I am seeing new ways to grow in my faith. Thank you